[She's just not going to point out that "dealing with it" is not the same thing as being ok with it. There's only so far she's willing to push an uncomfortable subject, and Kate's state of mind is a prickly area.] Well, ah, I already picked up some advent calendars I think that's what they're called for you and Rook... But you could always use yours like a strangely-shaped box of chocolates! I don't see that you have to open it one day at a time. I was planning on decorating a bit... is it all right if I get us a tree?