This is about a bit more than pleasing him, Sheska. You have to figure out what you want for your own sake, not for his. No one wants a girlfriend out of pity. [He pauses for a moment, then shrugs.] Well, at least no one should want it. And you should be with whoever you really want to be with. With whoever you feel comfortable around. Whoever won't push you into anything you don't feel ready for.