Surely you've had some experience... [She sounds absolutely wretched, unaware that the phrase might hurt.] Everyone wants to be with you - they certainly must have plagued you at school - how did you turn them down? Or break up with someone? This is so far beyond me... What if you like someone, but you're already with someone else? And the second person asks you out? Maybe I should just give up on dating. It's all so complicated. I could only dream of something so pure as to be able to just know like that.