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capтaιn kaтнerιne вeckeтт ([personal profile] themuse) wrote in [community profile] thoughtformed2013-01-13 02:49 pm

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I was the youngest woman in the NYPD to make detective. I have a series of BOOKS based on me back home. I am REALLY good at my job. Is it too much to expect a LITTLE bit of respect around here?

And a bigger office?

I mean come ON.


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[personal profile] animator 2013-01-14 03:10 am (UTC)(link)
You shouldn't have to ask, but we don't live in a fair world, here or anywhere else. A lot of places will wait for you to show initiative or demand respect, especially if you're a woman. It's shitty, but that's how it is. I saw a lot of that in St. Louis. I got the respect I deserved by stepping up and demanding it.
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[personal profile] animator 2013-01-14 07:39 am (UTC)(link)
Then you were luckier than most. Even when I was doing my most stellar work, I had to work to make people respect me. At least at home, it wasn't easy to be a woman working with the cops. We run the place here, but we sure as hell didn't there. No matter how many times I saved their asses, outside of the squad I normally worked with, all I ever got was condescension and pet names -- until I demanded that they give me the respect I was owed.